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The Child Within Us

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The Child Within Us

I once asked our staff to bring in photos of themselves when they were around 10-years-old. We all looked so good then didn’t we, with teeth that looked too big for our still youthful faces. It was a fun meeting. I really looked forward to it because it was a chance to see one another in a different light. We were/are all vulnerable to the criticism of others, to the desires of pleasing our parents, to the challenges of focusing our energy in an increasingly rigid world, and to the pressures of our peers in the complex social communities that surround us. Somehow looking back at our 10-year-old selves is a little nostalgic because the consequence of not succeeding in all of these areas just doesn’t seem so imperative now. Seeing our co-workers in a different way can help us empathize with the similar desires we all have.

My husband gave me a photo of himself from a Christmas many years ago. He said it was his “Best Christmas Ever!” as he had received two of his most desired things – a set of “Fanner Fifty Cap guns” and a football helmet. He recalls going to bed, still wearing all of his new accessories and awakening to find the items laid neatly by his bed. It invokes a tenderness for his heart when I relate to his childhood memory and the precious smile on his young face.

It is that time of year when we can get caught up in the adult stresses of holiday expectations. It is important to recall the simpler times in our lives. If you are like me, the best memories didn’t come from expensive gifts but of simple things like walks in the snow with the family, of drives in the car to see Christmas lights, of quiet time spent with one another and church candle-light services. I feel it is important to turn off the negative news and recognize the simple things we can do to make this season a less stress filled-time for the child within us and within each person in our lives.

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stylus for I-Pad

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stylus for I-Pad

I have been frustrated with the difficulty of having patients sign the screen with our visit notes while doing home care.  The patient has difficulty getting the stylus to make a mark due to the angle of the stylus in use.  They often grasp the I-pad and place their finger on the Home Button.  They need to place the hand down to stabilize while writing and doing so causes the screen to move.  Sometimes they press too hard and a bubble shows up on the screen.  I have been on the hunt for a better stylus, one with a smaller tip.  I found this stylus on Kickstarter.  It is pricey and I will have to wait until January for it to come in but it is fun to support someone who is inventing an improved product.  Now I need to come up with an I-Pad holder that has a piece that can flip over when used for signing that will cover a portion of the screen – hovering just above the screen, so the patient can rest their hand on the cover while they sign. ..Something to invent!

Body Image

Why is that when I was young I had such a terrible time with my skin, constantly hiding my face due to pimples and now that I am older my skin is so clear?  Why is it that I struggle so with my weight now that I am older but took for granted the slim figure that was effortlessly maintained in my youth?  I can grow long nails now in my older years but struggled with biting my nails as a teen.  What virtue do I have now that I will wish for as I grow older?   

Seeing that sparkle in their eyes

I learned more about a patient of mine today when she started to tell me about her passion in her work, a job she retired from a long while back.  She related to me stories of her career as a counselor in high school.  She touched young people’s lives in profound ways, some to the extent that they stiil visit her on special holidays.  As she shared with me the memories of how her work fulfilled her in her youth, I could see the sparkle in her eyes even through her pain.    She still has the desire to help the youth and I feel compelled to find a way for her to have this chance. The daily reward of home care is helping people find their purpose, their sparkle.

Helpful Hint

We use plastic cups for holding my green power juices and the fresh vegetables and fruits can stain the inside of straws badly.  I purchased a “straw cleaner”, a tiny brush that can be pushed inside the straw for cleaning but have found it doesn’t reach the very center because it is too short.  Bill told me he found a way to get it cleaned and I want to share this helpful hint.  If you have the disposable straws that are thin and have a bendable portion, you can use it to slide into the larger straw.  The ridges of the bendable straw serve to scrub the inside of the straw!….or you could find a longer straw cleaner for purchase.  

An Third Edit finished

I completed the third edit to “Hard One Pearls” and expect to have it available for purchase by the weekend.  I am still amazed that the writing went so quickly.  It took less than 5 days to put the words to page but many more to edit and format.  After wrapping up the last download last night, I sighed and said “Thank goodness that is done.”  My  husband laughed and said, “I know because it has taken you so long!”, rolling his eyes.  He had worked on writing his books for years.  We had a great laugh.

My husband has been such a great support in this project, just as he is on all the things I decide are important.  It is wonderful to have a soulmate that fits so naturally. 

 

Conflicted feelings

Today I found new batteries for a patient’s glucose meter.  She had not used it for three days because she couldn’t find her batteries.  I don’t usually help with the use of these tests and I watched as she tried to time the procedure so her machine didn’t turn off before she had the blood ready for the strip. She struggled with arthritic fingers to get the tiny test strips ready for the machine.  She used 3 strips and had to poke herself twice to acquire the reading.  This is a task that I am sure most others perform rapidly and without much thought.  But for her, the process is frustrating and difficult.   

It is humbling to place yourself in another person’s shoes.  To see the problems and loneliness of others all day and then go home to a husband with a fire in the fireplace, prepared dinner and clean house leaves me with a conflicted feeling.  I am grateful for the blessings I have but feel for the people I know that are still out there struggling with the small things in life.